Subject: Remember the function of this site. Date: 10/12/1998 6:11 PM Eastern Daylight Time From: Gibro28W Message-id: <19981012181129.12347.00000282@ng28.aol.com>
Susan,
You wrote:>Dr. Cole's >scholarship in general. His article entitled "Behold the Man"
which describes >Baha'u'llah's treatment of Christ and appeared in the Journal of the >American Academy of Religion about a year ago was magnificent.
Thank you for pointing that out. This is the useful information that Baha'is need to hear from people like yourself.
You also said: > I would not have criticized Dr. Cole on this forum at
all had it not been >for his intemperate condemnation of the Institutions which was forwarded to >this list.
The discriptive heading of this particular forum (folder) states: "for non-Baha'is to discuss why they left or never converted to the faith." What Dr. Cole has said critically about the Institutions (as others like myself have)--why he left the Baha'i Faith--is quite appropriate for this forum section. This is not the "Happy Thoughts" section. Baha'is lurking here, especially, should expect that.
If you feel the need to counter Dr. Cole by defending the UHJ, O.K.
But by the same token, you should respect his right to criticize it for what he feels its members hurtfully did to him and others. People need to know about the pros and cons in order to get a broader picture. Let it go at that.
The Bahai Faith, scripturally and institutionally, however beautiful to its believers, is not perfect. If it was, we wouldn't be communicating under these polarized circumstances.
None of the former members of this religion want to see it destroyed. What we would like to see exposed are the divisive dogmas and the abuses of administrative power that stunt its growth. If the Baha'i Faith has been somehow corrupted, then this needs to be discussed openly and objectively to remedy the problem. Yours should not merely be a public relations campaign to put the best spin on compromising revelations.
Surely you have to admit that these arguments haven't been foisted upon the Baha'i community by deluded malcontents. And simply denying our arguments won't make them go away. There will always be people after us who will continue this debate--until the issues are honestly and faithfully confronted to find the fairest resolution. With the present, unaccountable (off-the-hook "infallibilty") mindset of the UHJ, however, this won't
happen any time soon. Nor will I wait around that long. As Candy so well reminded me, there are better ways to spend one's life than beating a dead horse.
In summary, the biggest problem, as I see it, is that most Baha'is don't take criticism seriously--they tune it out as "negative" or "harmful to spiritual growth." This selfish attitude is very stupid. First of all, Baha'is entice people to join them. When they do, they indoctrinate them until they think like the group. But as soon as a red flare of doubt goes up in the convert's mind, they're cordoned off by the group and reminded of their "spiritual" obligations in the
name of Baha'u'llah or the "Covenant." If left unresolved and doubt gives
vent to prolonged criticism, the convert is sent packing or is kicked out. What we have here is a broken family that had failed to truly listen to the needs of its members in the first place.
So, Susan, it's like you're telling Dr. Cole: "I would not have
questioned your integrity had it not been for your complaints about Daddy after he chased you out of our house for not calling him All-Knowing, Loving King." Isn't that really what your definition of loyalty to Baha'u'llah and the Covenant mean?
P.S.--I'm only trying to reason with you, Susan. I'm not trying to put you down.
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